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Changes are necessary to this world. This is the reason we’re not in the dark ages anymore. For better or worse, changes may occur to your life or to the life people you know. Changes are not destined, they are optional.
Some people hate changes, or technically, they don’t want anything to be changed. When people say: you’ve changed, or when you say: people have change... the truth is, you just stop being the person they want you to be or they stop being the people you want them to be. Like what I’ve said earlier, for better or worse, you’re the one who choose that, vice versa.
Turns out, being changed is not that easy. There are several things you need to cut out and also there are things you need to keep on going. Below are things I consider to be necessity when you decide to make change.
Believe.
What would you be if you don’t believe? Where would you go if you don’t believe? What are you if you don’t believe?
You may not tell which one is better or not-for you, but when you believe, you can work it out, you can bring it out. You need to believe in what you’re doing is going to be right. You need to believe in what is happening to you will be the best thing that happens to you. And you need also to trust into what people said it will be better for them. Thing will always end up well, when you believe and respect the other’s decision.
Be positive
When someone has changed, don’t think of they are about to stay away from you. You need to be positive that may be the one may want some bigger spaces than they have already had before, may be they need lots more private spaces. You also need to be positive to all the trials and challenges which are in your way when you want to change. Always remember that big things won’t easy and easy things won’t big.
Make distance
You know that there are people out there who can be the friends you can share your chocolate with. There are also people who you can share your sadness with. Not only those, there are also people who you cannot share anything with. These people you need to make distance of. I am not saying that you should cut the relationship off, you need just to create a proper distance.
I wish you the best of luck, and just believe and remember that God is over everything.